Hi Ladies n Gents! Today is wonderful cause im back to write again. The topic is How to Build Healthy Friendship with officemates or anything you name it, which is fun to discuss since ive seen many brotherhood and sisterhood gather in a cozy spots talk about what they like and dislike. Such in a coffee shop, they mingle together, sing and play guitar. So here is the tips:
Allah is the first priority.
Give them Nasihat as you can.
Buy snack for your self, but a bit sharing to your mates.
Enjoy the ride, dont get too seriously.
Just relax. Chill out.
Healthy conversation.
Consume good content.
If they dont know, dont belittle them.
Say hello or 'basa-basi'.
Play games. (Sudoku, Temple run, Limbo, Zombies, War, Riddles)
Gossip discounts, new tech, music, sport, nature, watercolor painting or whats new. Avoid gossip about people's weaknesses.
KPOP( song triplet, SNSD, blackpink )
Cycling, running, swimming.
Long term investment. Short term investment.
Low cost for having a lunch. E.g warteg is enough.
No SARA jokes. If you do it, they probably get offended.
Support them to positive vibes.
I'll pay the bill or BS (Bayar Sendiri-Sendiri).
If you invite them, buy them a coffee.
Watch netflix or cartoon (Bugs Bunny, Tom n Jerry, Disney).
All we need is cold and warm (manner).
Brotherhood and sisterhood at the right time.
Learn management.
Just do good for yourself. Reflection is necessary.
Smart humor yet not hurting.
Accept for who they are. But trying to fix them is doing just fine.
Share your interests.
Think Greenpeace. Enroll yourself to Greenpeace Indonesia.
Avoid things from forbidden stuffs (based on Quran), such as alcohols, consumption of pork, gambling, riba, murder and unjust killing, theft, adultery and fornication, backbiting and slander.
Chitting chat with friends.
Give them feedback. Be honest review.
Dont beg. Dont chase. Stay still for routines.
Healthy Friendship is a good deed.
They grow from a good seed.
They do it for the sake of Allah.
and see it as strong friendship.
What else? I'd appreciate if you comment below here.
-ai-
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